By Joshua Uebergang
".........like kryptonite to superman as fear is to communicate confidently. Fear is the acid that eats away
confidence. Fear is the one tonne bolder that holds back a person from being confident. Fear is the Achilles of self-confidence.
You will build more confidence once you remove the “kryptonite, acid, or one tonne bolder” that is fear. To become confident you need to have little or ultimately no fear. To remove your fears the first step is to look at your fears and understand their “birth” to see what created them.
As a baby you entered into this world in a neutral state of mind. You did not fear people looking at you or staring back at people. You did not constrain your actions because of what other people
thought. You were spontaneous without a care in the world as to what other people were thinking of your actions. I think the only fear a baby has is loud noises.
This neutral state of mind changed as you aged. When you were growing up, your parents would
tell you, “Watch out!”, “Don't go there!”, “Don't do that!”, and “You're not allowed that!” Your parents conditioned your behavior. After being conditioned, what actions you took after that would be conditional on how you thought your parents would respond. You lost your independence to do as you wish and became dependent on your parents. What you could and couldn't do became more and more determined by your parents. This stimulated the creation of your fear of failure or fear of success......" - Fearlessly Communicating and Talking with Confidence.
This is agreat e-book for you to read and enhance your communicating skill. Topics covered in this e-book:
Birth of Fear
Perceptual Process
Real or Fake Threat
Prepare for the Worst Case Scenario
Being Needy and Seeking Approval
Clarity Forms Confidence
Accepting of Others
Confident Non-Verbal Communication
1) Moving Eye Contact
2) Weak Touch
3) Stay Away
4) Carry Yourself
What are You Saying to Yourself?
Love Yourself
Ensuring You Become Confident
Practice, Practice, and Practice
Communication Must be Continually Learned
Recommended Confidence Resources
My Free Newsletter: “Earthling Transmission”
".........like kryptonite to superman as fear is to communicate confidently. Fear is the acid that eats away
confidence. Fear is the one tonne bolder that holds back a person from being confident. Fear is the Achilles of self-confidence.
You will build more confidence once you remove the “kryptonite, acid, or one tonne bolder” that is fear. To become confident you need to have little or ultimately no fear. To remove your fears the first step is to look at your fears and understand their “birth” to see what created them.
As a baby you entered into this world in a neutral state of mind. You did not fear people looking at you or staring back at people. You did not constrain your actions because of what other people
thought. You were spontaneous without a care in the world as to what other people were thinking of your actions. I think the only fear a baby has is loud noises.
This neutral state of mind changed as you aged. When you were growing up, your parents would
tell you, “Watch out!”, “Don't go there!”, “Don't do that!”, and “You're not allowed that!” Your parents conditioned your behavior. After being conditioned, what actions you took after that would be conditional on how you thought your parents would respond. You lost your independence to do as you wish and became dependent on your parents. What you could and couldn't do became more and more determined by your parents. This stimulated the creation of your fear of failure or fear of success......" - Fearlessly Communicating and Talking with Confidence.
This is agreat e-book for you to read and enhance your communicating skill. Topics covered in this e-book:
Birth of Fear
Perceptual Process
Real or Fake Threat
Prepare for the Worst Case Scenario
Being Needy and Seeking Approval
Clarity Forms Confidence
Accepting of Others
Confident Non-Verbal Communication
1) Moving Eye Contact
2) Weak Touch
3) Stay Away
4) Carry Yourself
What are You Saying to Yourself?
Love Yourself
Ensuring You Become Confident
Practice, Practice, and Practice
Communication Must be Continually Learned
Recommended Confidence Resources
My Free Newsletter: “Earthling Transmission”
Download link: Fearlessly Communicating and Talking with Confidence.
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